Blogtober14 – Tell A Secret About Yourself

This month I’m taking part in #Blogtober14…. join in…. with Helene and Taylor

Helene in Between

Day 18. Share A Secret About You

Of all the topics for this Blogtober14 challenge this is the most difficult one so far! I honestly couldn’t think of a single secret that I could share. Of course I have some secrets which cannot be shared for reasons beyond my control. So I guess the only thing I can come up with is something which is a bit soul baring and maybe not a secret but not something I tend to discuss.

Growing up I never had a boyfriend. I did go out with someone once or twice but nothing serious. I remember going out with one guy who said I couldn’t kiss and that made me so self conscious and I carried it with my until I met my husband 10 years later. This is the reason I didn’t kiss him on our first date! I was too self conscious.

As it turns out my husband was very similar to me. He’d had a girlfriend at school yes but nothing serious. He had also been hurt by a girl in school who left him for another boy who was “better”. By the time we met, we had both been alone for a while and were at the point if deliberating over Internet dating.

My first real relationship was with my husband. I’m so glad I met him! I honestly believe that we were meant to find each other. There have been numerous occasions where we should have met… we’ve been at the same events at the same time but never actually met until we both attended an accountancy course in 2008. We’re so alike it’s amazing! I think we’re kindred spirits really.

Have you got a secret to share? It doesn’t need to be anything embarrassing!


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  1. 18th October 2014 / 3:31 pm

    It is sometimes scary how similar my husband and i are! I think that’s one of the reason we always got along so good. The whole opposites attract thing only goes so far I think!

    • Becster
      21st October 2014 / 3:21 pm

      Oh I totally agree!

  2. 18th October 2014 / 11:51 pm

    This is so cute – if it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. 🙂

    • Becster
      20th October 2014 / 7:01 pm

      Yup true!

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